And what do I have to blog about?
Well, here goes.
The Ugliness of Life.
The ugliness of a man cheating on his wife and the ugliness of a woman cheating on her husband.
Ugly, ugly, ugly.
The thing is this. A marriage is forever.
If it is not, then why get married? If you intend to be with a person only when you are in love with him/her, then stay in love and enjoy it while it lasts. Cohabit, whatever, just don’t get married. Do not blaspheme the sacred act of marriage with your transient love.
If you believe in the institution of marriage, then believe that it is for better, for worse but most importantly, forever. Even after the passion fades and believe me, the passion would fade after a while.
Did I say FOREVER? I do truly mean forever and you have to make a conscious effort to make it forever. There ought not to be another choice other than FOREVER.
Forever means, if you find yourself falling in love with someone else after marriage, you stop yourself. If that person comes in the form of true love, you stop. If the person comes as your soulmate, you stop yourself too. When you get married, let the concept of ‘The One’ no longer exist unless the one is your spouse.
Getting married is not solely about love. It is about being committed to someone for the rest of his/her life. It is a promise that when the love dies and when things are no longer rosy, you will still be around.
That is commitment and responsibility for you. If you cannot afford it, don’t take that step.
This is what I believe in.
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On a lighter note, here are some worthy pics from the Land of Oz.
Gonna leave out the story of the ducks but you can drool at them here.
"Ingenius!!!" - spoken like a real Sua Ku...
Had a slight obsession for this Tonkotsu Ramen. Sydney has wonderful Jap food!
No prizes for guessing who was on my mind... hur hur hur...
Oh, I look really smart and talented here! I look like a 才女！Perfect!
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